Saturday 29 September 2018

Oops - Confession Time

Ok, this blog is seriously SERIOUSLY neglected.  To the point that I forgot it existed.  Sorry!

My children have grown up to be talented, independent girls and dancing has taken over our lives; I still home educate them (for now), we're still naturists and I've even gone back to church!  DD1 is now a preteen and wants to become a vlogger herself, so I thought I would start a blog myself before she is old enough to have one, so I can suss things out.  In setting one up, I rediscovered this one, so to be fair to the four people that still follow this blog (hello!) here's a link to my new one, as A LOT has happened in the years since I have posted here:
https://musingsmiddleagedmum.blogspot.com/2018/09/a-bit-about-me.html
And I've even joined social media and have a linked page too: https://www.facebook.com/Musings-of-a-Middle-aged-Mum-1013112412206104/

So, I'm ending this blog with a confession, and have started my new one with a confession too.
Happy reading xx

Wednesday 12 September 2012

Big wave to everyone on facebook!

Yes, this is still neglected.  I started tutoring again on Monday, and am doing so again tonight, so that's now taking up all my free time.  Did (surprisingly!) manage to decorate the bedroom over the summer, though I may have neglected here so much that you didn't even know that.  Officially am HEing now, hurray!, as DD1 is now school age.  Can see from my last post I was taking about her birthday, well, it's a week today that she turns 5 and this w/e is her dance party. Still a naturist, but this summer has been a bit of a washout, so am looking forward to going to Alton Towers in November. And then all of a sudden it's Christmas (yikes) so just in case I don't come back: Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year to you. xxx

Oh and if anyone is so inclined, please sign this petition: https://www.assemblywales.org/epetition-list-of-signatories.htm?pet_id=792
and complete the consultation response form (though it is VERY badly designed): http://wales.gov.uk/consultations/education/registeringandmonitoring/?lang=en&status=open

Tuesday 15 May 2012

DD1's birthday party

She's not 5 until September, but is planning it already.  She's not yet 'school age' but has 34 friends on the list already, and she's been wanting to add everyone from her gymnastics and ballet & tap classes too - and people think HEed kids are isolated! Pah!

Anyway, we're thinking about what would be best.  Our house is far too small to have anywhere near that number of people (plus extra when you include parents and siblings).  I could hire the local community hall, but not sure if I can be bothered organising that number of children into organised activities (pass the parcel, musical statues etc etc) and think it will be more chaos than anything else.  We did soft play last year, which was good, but I don't fancy doing that again this year.  Her gymnastics class do birthday parties (£120 for 20 kids for 2hours) but everybody has to be over 5, which would mean not just that DD2 couldn't attend, but also that most of her friends couldn't either as she's the oldest.  I also contacted her dance teachers and they do parties too (£90 for 20 kids for 2hours) but there's no age limits, which is good.  So, I now have to decide whether I want to spend £90, just for someone else to organise the party and activities, when I still have to proved the food and party bags?

Wednesday 2 May 2012

I turn 30 next week.

I'm actually not regretting it (not that I have much choice, other than suicide anyway and I don't wanna do that!) although I had hoped I'd get down to a size 12 (or below) before my 30th.  It was always a pipe dream, but given the success of weightloss I'd had last year and just before I had DD2, I thought I might just make it, but it's not to be.  I am only a size 14, though, so I can't complain, and my jeans are too loose (though 12s are still too small).  I haven't been on my diet since this time last year, when my sister stopped me losing any more weight before her wedding.  I tried starting the diet again in August, and then in Jan of this year, but I don't have the motivation and just don't care.  I know I'm a lot healthier than I used to be, and have managed to keep most of the weight off (I'm now just below 11st, rather than just below 10st as I wanted) but I'm not yoyo-dieting, and I'm not really trying, if I'm honest.  I'll still eat takeaways etc, just feel more powerful (if you can understand that?) about NOT eating dessert/more if I don't really want it.

But, because I turn 30, rather than having the usual BBQ for all our uni friends, I've ended up inviting everybody and anybody.  At last count, we've 20 adults and 11 kids coming, and half the people haven't replied!  I'm just hoping that the weather is dry.  I don't care how cold it is - people can wear coats - but our living room is not big enough for that number of people, and we need to be able to shove them all in the garden.  Not only that, I need to tidy the rest of the house as I'm sure people will overspill upstairs too.  Our bedroom is strictly off limits.  My work room has a sofa bed in, and is where my mum is staying, so that'll be off limits too (though will still be tidier than our bedroom).  But I still need to clean the bathroom, again, and the DDs bedroom.  We live in a hard water area, so our toilet fills with limescale overnight, which looks unsightly, and just from having children toys end up everywhere.  The DDs have too many toys for their room.  We don't have enough storage, and everything ends up in a big mess in the middle.  I need to get tidying.  And then do downstairs again.  It was tidy this morning, but then the kids woke up.  And I need to do the kitchen.  Well, really, I need to get DH to do it.  He's paranoid about identity theft, so we have bags of 'shredding' that he hasn't yet shredded.  That all needs to be moved before the w/e.  Finally, I need to make sure I'm totally up to date with the clothes washing, so that I can take the clothes horses, that permanently live in the kitchen, out of the way to allow space to the back door and the garden.  Our kitchen is also in the middle of being redecorated, though I started last summer, so I'm not even attempting to finish before the weekend.

But as I genuinely do have all of those things to do, I really should get to it.  I haven't even mentioned yet all the HE-type things we're, and DD1 doing gymnastics still, and she's now started Ballet and Tap, got moved up a class and she will be in a show in October, and we're looking for swimming lessons for her too.  DD2 is a proper little girl now, talking more and more (she's been walking ages).  It may not be before the BBQ, but I will write more next time.  Oh, and about the various books I've been reading, some of which are good, some not-so-good.  I still need to review all them.  And library books.  Last week, DD1 read Cinderella all by herself.  This weeks she has taken Little Red Riding Hood (and read that herself) and The Emperor's New Clothes.

Tuesday 1 May 2012

Clearly I've failed...

... on the previous post's promise of posting more, given that was in January, and it is now May.  In my meagre defence, I have kept up fairly well with my family's blog even though my laptop died.  It took a month to decide upon and get a new one, which in turn only last 2 weeks before the hard disk died.  Today it has been returned, with new hard disk, so I'm finally back.

Wednesday 4 January 2012

It's been a long time...

...but I am still alive.  I've just been soo incredibly busy.  It turns out that looking after a 4yo and a 1yo full-time during the day, and running your own tutoring business (especially with January exams coming up) doesn't leave you with much free time for blogging!  Anyway, I'm going to try to be better.  Especially as I'm planning on setting up a new non-anonymous blog (but set up as private, for family only) to share photos etc of HEing the kids.  My family are still not convinced/less than impressed that I want to homeschool.  DH's family are more supportive (especially his dad, who is a teacher himself) but still not sure about it.

Anyway, I promise to post a bit more, even if it's still not as regularly as I'd like.
Happy New Year, everyone.

Monday 15 August 2011

Library Books and Weightloss

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These are our latest books out of the library.  DD1 seems to have stopped reading (or wanting to be read to) atm, but still wants to take books out of the library, so we've amassed quite a collection at home atm.

And, though not quite a week, I weighed myself this morning and haven't lost anything yet.  I've not been specifically dieting, so that's probably the reason, but it has crossed my mind, that I'm back on the Depo jab now.  I was never able to lose weight before, and the two times in recent history where I have been able to lose weight (immediately before getting pg with DD2, and immediately after her birth) I wasn't on contraception.  I hope this is just a coincidence, and it doesn't mean that I won't be able to lose weight at all now I'm back on depo.